Obituaries

Leonard Griffith
B: 1937-12-18
D: 2017-04-18
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Griffith, Leonard
Abraham Nguyen
B: 1956-04-06
D: 2017-04-14
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Nguyen, Abraham
Catherine Kosma
B: 1950-04-27
D: 2017-04-12
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Kosma, Catherine
Shirley Anderson
B: 1931-12-10
D: 2017-04-12
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Anderson, Shirley
Wilbert Hawkins
B: 1941-07-01
D: 2017-04-08
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Hawkins, Wilbert
Connie Stephens
B: 1947-08-05
D: 2017-04-07
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Stephens, Connie
Donna Carpenter
B: 1969-07-22
D: 2017-04-06
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Carpenter, Donna
Mary Ann Werner
B: 1931-12-27
D: 2017-04-06
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Werner, Mary Ann
Raymond Doyle
B: 1927-11-06
D: 2017-04-05
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Doyle, Raymond
Donna Hudelson
B: 1947-07-01
D: 2017-04-03
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Hudelson, Donna
Anthony Vitelli
B: 1944-01-31
D: 2017-04-02
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Vitelli, Anthony
Aurora Cuenca
B: 1951-02-19
D: 2017-04-01
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Cuenca, Aurora
Dorothy Kehlenbeck
B: 1925-07-26
D: 2017-03-31
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Kehlenbeck, Dorothy
Barbara McQueen
B: 1955-04-09
D: 2017-03-30
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McQueen, Barbara
Janet Nesbitt
B: 1951-02-17
D: 2017-03-30
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Nesbitt, Janet
Shirley Sutton
B: 1929-03-03
D: 2017-03-24
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Sutton, Shirley
Lillian Jones
B: 1929-04-19
D: 2017-03-24
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Jones, Lillian
Juanita Withrow
B: 1929-01-27
D: 2017-03-23
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Withrow, Juanita
Scott Macdonald
B: 1954-06-05
D: 2017-03-22
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Macdonald, Scott
Matthew Tomasetti
B: 1977-01-21
D: 2017-03-21
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Tomasetti, Matthew
Ana Martinez
B: 2017-03-21
D: 2017-03-21
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Martinez, Ana

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Scattering Services

For families who have chosen cremation for a loved one, the next decision involves what to do with the remains. Some choose to keep the cremated remains in their home, have them placed in a columbarium niche at a local cemetery, or scatter the ashes in a meaningful place, or at sea.  For veterans, we will help arrange scattering at sea by the U.S. Navy at no extra charge.

Scattering

Cremation provides families with more time to arrange where and how to scatter the ashes. While there is no policing agency overseeing scattering, there are some basics you should know:

  • If you plan on scattering on private property, it's smart to receive written permission from the owner.
  • Public parks require that you obtain a scattering permit.
  • There are no regulations regarding scattering on uncontrolled public lands; you need to use your own judgment.
  • You should not scatter cremated remains within 100 yards of public roads or trails.
  • The urn must be disposed of separately and in an environmentally-safe manner.
  • Scattering in inland waters is governed by the Clean Water Act so it's important to obtain a permit from the agency that oversees waterways.
  • Scattering at sea must be done at a minimum of three nautical miles from the coastline.  There are private charters that will help you, if you don't have a boat.  We can provide more information.
  • The U.S. Navy will scatter cremated remains for any honorably-discharged veteran, and provide the family with the latitude and longitude where the scattering took place.  We will work directly with the Navy to facilitate scattering at sea for you.
  • Any flowers or wreaths used in the  scattering ceremony held at sea must decompose. No plastic flowers or other non-decomposable items should be left behind.
  • For scattering done at sea, the Environmental Protection Agency requires that you notify the regional office in writing within 30 days after the event.

How to Scatter Cremated Remains

Cremated remains bear little resemblance to ashes; they look and behave a lot like small-grained gravel. However, there are some fine-grains mixed in so be sure to check the wind direction before scattering into the air or a body of water.

The technique of trenching is another option. Dig a small trench in the location of your choice, place the remains (or a biodegradable urn) within, and cover with soil.

Raking is another technique used. Pour the remains on the surface of the soil and use a rake to mix them.

You may also wish to check out our selection of scattering urns prior to making plans for your ceremony. Should you need advice on how to design a meaningful ceremony, feel free to call us at 757-366-9260.