On behalf of Tom Selander,
Ben Selander and the family of Oscar Richard Selander III, invite everyone who is receiving this to Oscar’s Celebration of Life Service. The service will this Saturday July 28, at 11am.
The location will be at
Family Choice Funeral Home
5401 Indian River Rd.
Virginia Beach, Virginia, 23464
During his two year journey since his initial diagnosis Oscar, Ben and I spoke about Oscar’s wishes for this Celebration of Life “Party”! His first request he repeated many times over he wanted people to come in comfortable clothes. Oscar would share they should be wearing shorts or jeans with a t-shirt or favorite sports jersey, and added the proper preference being the Yankees or Red Skins apparel. Oscar always shared with Ben and I he is hoping for lots of laughter, but tears of Joy are acceptable. So please come out and enjoy the party!
With Oscar’s wishes of being buried at Sea, in Lieu of Flowers Ben and the Family are asking for Donations to Heartland Hospice Memorial fund. This is the link for that fund below
https://heartlandhospicefund.org or you prefer to mail in a donation the address is
Heartland Memorial fund
5041 Corporate Woods DR. #200
Virginia Beach, VA 23462
Sorry For Your Loss
Jesus Loves Me
I Am Special To God
Dear Ben & family,
Please know that the team at Heartland Hospice sends our sincere sympathy and support in this time of loss. We continue to be available for assistance as you grieve.
Terry Tribe Johnson
Bereavement Coordinator
I am saddened by the death of Oscar. I have known Oscar for several years but only able to visit with him while attending Nascar races at Charlotte Motor Speedway. I found that he and Ben were very special people. I always looked forward to both of them attending the races in May and October. Oscar was a fun loving guy with a unique sense of humor,out going and very personable. I knew Ben as a young child growing up and have the up most respect and best wishes for him as he goes through life. I feel his loss and he and his Dad will always be in my memory. Best wishes to his entire family and my sincere condolences. You are now at peace Oscar,no longer in pain and are made whole again.